Stop Complaining About Ads & Privacy Changes On Social Networks

Google+ is now introducing ads. Also, unless you tell them not to they are going to use your face to endorse some stuff. That sound familiar?

And, in the other corner, all content on Facebook is now searchable. Oh, did I mention Instagram serving ads. Awesome. Yes, awesome, for them that is.

Once I was the guy who was outraged by this. I mean, “How could they use my content like that? It was my content, my family picnic photos, my wedding and my creative artwork. And, they’re just going to use it anyhow, not even without my permission.”

Like I said, I was once that guy, then I grew up.

Stop Complaining About Ads & Privacy Changes On Social Networks

Complaining about what social networks are doing with “your data” is naive [Click to Tweet]


User Agreements and Privacy Policies

Firstly, like 99.9% of most people on them you never did read the user agreement and privacy policy. You just lied; you claimed you had read and understood the terms. If you had read it carefully, you would’ve seen the clauses that said they could amend the policy and the user agreement.

You would’ve been aware that you were at the mercy of the network you would commit the memory of some of your precious moments in life. How do I know? I did that. I didn’t read the long, boring, legal jargon that the “agreements” are written in.

My take is that they, the user agreements that is, are written to protect the social media platforms more than the people who use them.

Stop complaining about the change of privacy and advertising on Facebook, Instagram, Google+ and the rest. They told you, in their complicated way and incomprehensible way that they would do what are doing.

It is their house you went to play in and you have to play by their rules. For me, it is that simple. But I didn’t just arrive at this. It was journey. They need to keep their lights on and want some sort of reward for allowing you to play in their house.

Is it that simple enough for you?


One of the ways I chose to grow up and stop complaining about all these changes is to put more “stock” on my blog. I now place more value on my blog in that I have chosen to concentrate on putting more of my personal stuff where I have complete control of my stuff.

I do still use Facebook, Google+ and others, because a lot of people are there, but I use it to point to my blog. My pageviews, including photo posts, are now too important for me just give away to Facebook, Google+ and the like.

Again, if you’re happy for someone else to call the shots on your stuff that is fine. But it is not for me. I use self-hosted WordPress for my blogs. I don’t like the free blogging platforms (e.g., Tumblr) because I don’t know what bee is going to be in the bonnet tomorrow. I also don’t have complete control about what ads show on “my blog”.

My writing, precious memories in photos and other works are that much more valuable to me that I want where I can protect them and do as I please with them, without being a share price pawn for Zuckerberg or Schmidt.

I am grateful for Facebook, Google+ and others in that they help us connect with friends and family. I’m also grateful that they’ve helped me in building my platform.


Like I’ve said, I now choose to focus my content more on my own platforms. Besides my blog I’m also placing great value on apps and platforms that share the philosophy of complete ownership and control of works.

Hence I use Pressgram. I’m also on the look out for apps and platforms that share a philosophy akin to Pressgram’s.

Side Note

Anyone serious about influencing in any significant way must know how to leverage the different platforms. However, this must be done in way that also enables their own platform, of which they have autonomy to do as the please with.

Your strategy to influence must never be at the mercy of social media platforms you have no control over [Click to Tweet]


Quit complaining about ads, privacy policy changes. You can’t go to someone’s house and make demands. Didn’t your momma teach you better?

Focus on building your own platforms such as self-hosted blogs where you can put your realty. Use the Facebook, Google+ and others like them to enable your own platform.

Your take?

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Don’t Be THAT Speaker: The Microphones

I am very choosy about what conferences or workshops I understand. I make decisions on whether to attend primarily on two premises:


1.There is a lot I can learn there and,
2.Whatever I learn is going to significantly enrich me in a pertinent way.

That’s right, I have a Conference Attending Manifesto… However, now and then I meet a speaker, whom is worth listening to but some stuff they do in their delivery annoys the living daylight out of me, I lose the beauty of the message because of the delivery. Bad delivery by a speaker does not help building what  Michael Hyatt calls a platform. I highly recommend you get his book: Platform.


Every speaker must make sure that the beauty and wealth of their message does not get lost in their delivery


What I am about to share I find very annoying and highly recommend every platform communicator to consider, to avoid being that speaker. You know the speaker that ends being talked about as a bad speaker and not because they do not know what they are talking about but because they are bad at it. Besides the 28 Random Things To Always Check, you must get one of the tools platform communicators use often right. Let’s focus on microphones…

microphones are critical tools for platform communication but are often thought about the least, negatively affecting delivery  || image by spDuchamp | cc
microphones are critical tools for platform communication but are often thought about the least, negatively affecting delivery || image by spDuchamp | cc

The Wand

When you use a handheld, remember it is a microphone not a wand. The microphone is there to help your audience to hear you. It enables the propagation of your message. When you wave it about it affects how your voice goes out and your audience can miss parts of your sentences if you are waving the microphone. If you use a lot of hand gestures when you speak take extra care.

keep the microphone in front of your mouth, not around it

The Kiss

Do not kiss or put the microphone on your lips or in your mouth. This does not help sound, it merely muffles it and leaves unnecessary bacteria for the next guy. (If you used a stinky microphone after someone has practically been kissing it, you will know what I mean).

Hold the microphone (or place it on a stand) at a 30-degree tilt and at a distance of about 15cm


Clip On

If you are going to use a clip on microphone, place it is where it is not going to rub against other articles of clothing, which can create noise. Trust the sound guy. He will place the microphone where it is best. Try not to move it about. If you do have to move it, place it about 25cm from your mouth. They are generally designed to pick up sound in that range.



Do not breathe heavily into the microphone. If you need to take a deep breath, move the microphone from your mouth. In the case of clip-on or headset microphones cover them or turn away from the microphone if you have to. I know you might be nervous but do not annoy your audience while you are at.

respect your audience and your work enough to take everything about it seriously


The Drum and Trumpet

The microphone is not a drum; do not beat it. Do not blow into the microphone either. This can damage microphones.

simply talk into the microphone to check if it is on

Ask the sound guys if you need to switch the microphone on when you get up to speak and ask how to do so if you do not know


The Rapper

When you are done speaking, do not throw the microphone down. (Eminem is an exception. If you are Eminem, ignore this). Gently place back on the podium, microphone stand or hand it back to the sound guy or stage manager. Mute or switch off the microphone before you put it down. Again, if you can, ask the sound guys what you must do with the microphone when you are done with it.

always consider how to best care equipment; be a good steward


Give Back

If you use a headset or clip on microphone remember to give it back when you are done. Because these are generally attached to you, it is easier to walk away with them. Ask for help from the sound guy to make sure that you take it off without damaging it.

if it is not yours do not take it with you



The sound guys will love you. PS: they are also the guys who will determine whether you sound nice or crappy ;-)

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Any questions on microphones when speaking? What annoys you most about speakers when it comes to microphones?