We all have people we look up to for diverse reasons. Some of the reasons we look up to them could be that they have strengths in areas we don’t. Or they’ve achieved in areas we want to achieve in… The reasons are many, perhaps innumerable. And, now and then we contemplate on questions we would ask them on what it takes to get where they are.
Some reflections on what I’ve learned on Twitter so far:
People need you to give them a reason to follow you. Do you have something worthwhile to tweet or are your tweets relevant to them? At different stages I’ve followed different people depending on what I am interested in at that time. There are however, those that i follow constantly.
There are other people or organizations i follow “indirectly”. I do this through the use of private lists. I’ve also learnt that people follow you for different reasons. Some to spam, others because they want to “hear” what your thoughts are, others to engage with you on areas of interest. It’s normally the same in “real life”…
People may be following you but for different reasons. Some may follow because they are skeptics and want to be around to say, “I knew you wouldn’t be able to do it”. Others follow you because they believe in your cause, or want to learn from you.
When I decided to get on twitter, I set myself a challenge; to say at least two things everyday that were edifying in some way. I do use twitter to interact and engage with other people also, but want to also challenge others as they challenge me. It was not a walk in the park at first but with time got better.
As an ‘aspiring author’ this has helped. I also used twitter as my practice field for blogging. I thought, “if I can commit to a couple of (edifying) tweets everyday, it will help my discipline when I get back to blogging”.
Nothing can be sustained without discipline. You are probably the most disciplined person you know! To know what you are disciplined in, look at the most defined areas of your life.
“140 characters?!” I get that reaction a lot when I explain twitter to people. They just cannot get their heads around the number of characters a single tweet can comprise (obviously they’re not on twitter). I’ve learned the value or worth of what we say everyday is not in the amount of words you use.
I’ve come to appreciate more the worth of words; how to use them to communicate. Tweeting has helped me get straight to the point of what I want to say. If it’s worth saying I challenge myself to say it in a single tweet. I think it’s the same in everyday life and not just in the “twitterspehere”.
The most important things we can say are normally phrases with very few words, “I love you, I’m sorry, Thank you”… [Click to Tweet]
When we use a lot of words sometimes, there is possibility of losing the essence of what we’re trying to communicate. The target for my tweets is 120 characters at the moment. Some of the deepest things I’ve heard or said have been phrases that are concise.
Some people I’ve interacted with claim that twitter and social media in general, are a hindrance to “normal relationships”. I think differently. Twitter has closed the time and geographic divide for me. I’ve been able to interact with people who time and space don’t allow in real-time.
I dare say – with the digital age community has been redefined. I could be wrong, but my take is if studies are done to contrast the “normal” community and social media communities there would be more similarities than differences. I’ve shared ideas and resources.
For the friends I follow on twitter and interact with in person, Twitter has enhanced relationships. It has helped either start or continue conversations offline. Through use of hashtags I’ve also been able to see what others are saying about a particular subject in real-time. I’ve also learnt to share more, especially when I visit websites or blogs providing the option to tweet the link. I think sharing is one of the characteristics of community, don’t you?
I always have an “ideas journal” on me, but twitter has become an additional means to capture an idea and to get other people’s insights or thoughts on it. Some of my blog posts are actually “tweet spin-offs”.
When I get ideas or brainstorm I normally capture them in short phrases, so twitter has become great resource for capturing ideas for me. Sometimes those reading my tweets may see a tweet but I see a marker or reminder for an idea, which could be a talk, blog post, an article, an initiative etc
What have you learned from Twitter?
For the last few Mondays I’ve shared lessons from the road and squash court. For some reason that is where I seem to find myself in reflection almost effortlessly.
Perhaps the reason it is those two places is it is in those moments I disconnect from the usual bustle. Have you noticed places where you easily can disconnect and reflect? I think it is those kind of places where complexity ceases to be daunting.
Productivity takes on a new face when we’re in environments that encourage it. Sometimes changing my environment has made significant difference between getting things done and the adverse. I played a game of squash which reminded me about one of the reasons winning matters for us.
Well, I really felt like posting this and i kinda debated with myself. Some may think this childish… but i remembered someone telling me, “You are never too old to have a happy childhood!”
I just had to! I remember watching many episodes more than once… Here goes some of my favorite quotes. Some of them actually have some wisdom (at least for me). Enjoy!:
Winnie the Pooh: What day is it?
Piglet: It’s today
Winnie the Pooh: My favorite day
Winnie the Pooh: Oh bother!
Eeyore: It’s not much of a tail but I’m attached to it.
Winnie the Pooh: Think, think, think
Winnie the Pooh: Oh, oh, help and bother! I’m stuck. [this was after Pooh had eaten too much honey at Rabbits place and couldn’t go through the door]
Rabbit: Oh, dear. Oh, gracious. Oh. Well, it all comes from eating too much.
Winnie the Pooh: It all comes from not having front doors big enough!
Rabbit: Why did I ever invite that bear to lunch? Why, oh, why, oh, why?
Winnie the Pooh: A grand adventure is about to begin
Winnie the Pooh: Oh, bother! Empty again! Only the sticky part’s left.
Eeyore: Thanks for noticing me
Winnie the Pooh: [opening his door] Hello, out there! Oh, I hope nobody answers.
Tigger: T-T-F-N. Ta-ta for now.
Tigger: Say, who are you?
Narrator: I’m the narrator.
Tigger: Oh, well, please, for goodness’ sakes, narrate me down from here.
Tigger: Oh but the most wonderful thing about tiggers is I’m the only one…IIIII’m the only one. [growls]
Eeyore: It’s snowing still…And freezing… However, [ brightening up a little] we haven’t had an earthquake lately.
Rabbit: [drawing on Pooh’s backside when he’s stuck in Rabbit’s door] Oh Pooh! You messed up my moose!
Christopher Robin: Pooh, promise you won’t forget me, ever?
Tigger: Yuck! Tiggers Don’t like honey!
Winnie the Pooh: Always watch where you are going. Otherwise, you may step on a piece of the Forest that was left out by mistake.
Winnie the Pooh: Did you ever stop to think, and forget to start again?
Winnie the Pooh: I am shushed!
Tigger: T-I-double”guh”-errrrr, that spells Tigger!
Winnie the Pooh: If ever there is tomorrow when we’re not together.. there is something you must always remember. you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. but the most important thing is, even if we’re apart.. i’ll always be with you.
Gopher: That supercilious scoundrel confiscated my honey.
Winnie the Pooh: Good-bye, Piglet. Now, is the next chapter all about me?
Piglet: I don’t mind the leaves that are leaving. It’s the leaves that are coming.
Winnie the Pooh: Oh, stuff and fluff.
Owl: Being a screech owl, she also sang soprano in the London Opera.
Winnie the Pooh: Where are you going, Piglet?
Piglet: That’s what I’m asking myself, where?
Winnie the Pooh: And what do you think you will answer yourself?
Gopher: If I was you, I’d think about ssssskedaddin’ outta here.
Tigger: Have I won?
Winnie the Pooh: If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you
Winnie the Pooh: A little Consideration, a little Thought for Others, makes all the difference
Winnie the Pooh: Before beginning a Hunt, it is wise to ask someone what you are looking for before you begin looking for it.
Winnie the Pooh: I must rescue my supper!
Winnie the Pooh: Can’t we go back to page one and do it all over again?
Narrator: Sorry, Pooh, but all stories have an ending, you know.
I’m thousands of kilometres away from “home” and I as I mow the lawn my mind trails and rouses memories… I remember a particular occasion my dad taught me to change the blades on the lawn mower.
The present smell of the lawn and the wrath of the sun, as I mowed, remind me of how dad taught me to canvas the grass for stones before mowing… I remember blisters and the pain that came with them as I worked our garden / yard besides just mowing the lawn.